Top 7 Tips to Leap Beyond Fear of Success

Do you bail out of projects right before the finish line? Do you side-step promotions and opportunities? Do you put little effort toward your goals? If you do any of these things, you might be afraid of the idea of success.

But isn’t success a good thing? You may say, “Yes, of course.” But when you imagine yourself succeeding do negative thoughts pop into your mind? “If I succeed, I‘ll be unhappy… people won’t like me… I will struggle.”

Fear of success is tough to spot because it’s almost always unconscious. If you think fear of success might be holding you back, use these 7 tips to conquer it, so that you can have the success you truly want and deserve—and enjoy it!

1. Remove your excuses for being unsuccessful.
   
   Give up the stories you tell to explain why success hasn’t happened. (Such as: My boss is a jerk… I would do it, but I don't have the money… Other people are just luckier than me.)
   
   
2. Listen to feedback.
   
   When other people tell you that you’re sabotaging your own efforts or backsliding, listen. Let your friends and colleagues support you. They often notice when you’re in the way of your own progress. Hear them out to get back on track. Be sure to accept positive feedback too. Are you in the habit of only hearing the ways to improve yourself or your work? Increase your ability to be recognized. Take in what’s working as well. Use it to build your foundation toward accomplishing what matters to you.
   
   
3. Imagine yourself being happy and successful.
   
   If success could look, sound and feel great to you, what would that be like? Imagine finishing that project you’ve been putting off or writing that book and feeling a rush of energy and excitement afterward.
   
   
4. Alter your all-or-nothing thinking.
   
   When you think about success, do you associate it with the worst? For example, do you say things like: “I can't take the promotion because I'll lose my marriage.” Accepting one thing does not automatically mean losing another. Think it through. Talk it over with the key people involved.
   
   
5. Take yourself with you.
   
   When you succeed you’ll still be you! Keep your truest values intact. Do you value honesty? Then be honest, no matter how far up the ladder you climb.
   
   
6. Give your gifts to the world.
   
   Share your talents and skills. Don't hoard them. The world needs them. If you don’t succeed, you can’t make the difference that you want to make.
   
   
7. Know that there's nothing embarrassing about achievement.
   
   Don’t like standing out? You can still be humble—and even private—while receiving recognition. Or, if you prefer, you can stand up on your chair and shout, “I did it!”

Sue Brenner, PCC, PMP, Performance Coach and Author, wants you to get the most out of life and work. With fun, easy systems, Sue sparks people to ignite their potential. Since 1997, Sue has worked with Fortune 500 companies, top-notch small businesses and professionals to overcome obstacles. She serves as the CEO of the thriving coaching business Action Symphony and still loves to coach successful individuals and groups to reach the next level of success and beyond. Get the full scoop on Sues coaching and books at her website. And while there, subscribe to his FREE monthly eZine, Ignite Your Life!

To help professionals thrive at work, Sue wrote The Naked Desk: Everything you need to strip away clutter, save time & get things done and How to Set Goals that Stick (http://www.ignitepress.com). The Naked Desk shows you how to move past roadblocksclutter, disorder, unproductive busy-ness, and procrastination. It offers what you need to stop struggling and start flourishing. How to Set Goals that Stick, gives you quick steps to uncover what matters most to you. From there, Sue shows you exactly how to set 5-year and 1-year goals that get you out of bed in the morning. The results? Setting exciting goals that you actually stick to and bring alive in your life. As your goals come to life, enjoy deeper satisfaction at work and at home.